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10 Signs Why TRUMP Is An ABUSIVE “SPOUSE”… Red Flags!


If your friend was entering into an abusive relationship, how many RED FLAGS will you have to see before you finally say something to that friend?

Well, since I’m in a friendly mood today, I’m gonna speak to you, friend-to-friend…  “WTF are you doing?  Don’t you see all of these RED FLAGS?   How many flashing neon red flags need to pop up before you realize that something is very wrong here?”

Trump displays many classic signs of a no good, abusive partner that one should run away from, not run to.  But you know how it goes…  you figure, yeah he shows some signs of being an abusive partner, but when we get married… it will get better…  he’s gonna “Make Everything Great Again”…  NOT!   You need to pay attention to all of those gigantic RED FLAGS before you go any further!

NEWS FLASH–>  To those of you conned by the simple con man “King Trump”…   You are suffering from “Battered-wife’s syndrome”.  Let’s look at some of the the signs of an abusive relationship:

Anger: Temper tantrums, outbursts (or TWITTER bursts), and getting irrationally angry over small or insignificant things are signs that they have anger issues and can’t (or won’t) control their behavior.
** check out his press conference (Wed., Jan 11, 2017)  VERY Unpresidential…  so Sad!

Blame others for their problems or their bad behavior (Blame the “crooked” media for reporting his outbursts) (Blame the Dems for getting hacked by his friend and fellow abuser Putin)

Doesn’t say “I’m sorry.”   They’ll talk around the issue instead of addressing it in a direct manner. Apologies are an admission of guilt, which is essentially saying, “I’m not perfect.”   THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR BAD BEHAVIOR
** mocking the handicapped reporter, insulting the Gold Star family, etc.

Shows signs of secretive behaviors or excessive lying.  Fact: you can not have a healthy relationship without honesty
** he has reneged on almost all of his campaign promises before he’s even sworn in.  That’s gotta be a record!

>The wall might be a fence, and you’re gonna pay for it, NOT MEXICO
>He is not separating himself from his businesses in truth,  a fake separation = FAKE NEWS
>Repeal and Replace Obamacare… doesn’t know how!
>Drain the Swamp…  Trump Tower now sits right in the middle of that swamp
>”I know more than the generals!”   … REALLY??

Double standards
They can make mistakes, get angry, etc., but if you do it, it’s a crime.
** Trump can  go on Twitter and tweet out disparaging remarks about people, companies, etc. but if he THINKS that you are about to say something no-so-flattering about him, he starts crying like a bitch and wants to fight.

They use ultimatums to get their way.
They are stubborn and threaten to end your relationship, instead of coming to a compromise.
** If you don’t bow down to “King Trump”, he will try to make you pay.

You don’t like their friends.
If the people they hang out with are not nice people, you should probably reevaluate things.
** He thinks he is friends with Putin the “dicktator”

They throw temper tantrums over little things. (Like Tweets)
Emotional stability is key in a long-term relationship and it’s a lot to deal with. If they have legitimate emotional issues, maybe they should see a psychiatrist. They should    not be yelling at you, in person or by text message, multiple times per day.
** He Cra-Cra folks….. Big League  

They become angry when discussing their mistakes.
It’s not alright when they become angry about discussing anything they don’t like, don’t agree with, or don’t want to talk about. Their inability to talk about things that annoy them or strike a nerve is going to cause communication obstacles in your relationship further down the road.
** Like press conferences where he is supposed to be communicating to you what he’s doing on your behalf.

I know, that’s only 9 signs, but you get the point.

Trump is a bully bitch only concerned about himself and how good he looks sitting on his throne that you people were stupid enough to put him on.  The red flags have been waving since he came down that escalator.  And for some VERY STRANGE reason, people are saying, let’s make this official and tie the proverbial knot.

Do you, the United States of America, take this fool to be your unlawfully wedded president until death do you part?

Well,  guess what…  “I DON’T!”

But, I am The American-By-Default,  so consider yourself warned.

The American By Default

I am the American-By-Default and I’m watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya… I don’t like much of what I see. So I’m going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!


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January 12, 2017 · 3:32 pm

Who Died and Made Trump King *


Bow Down Bi***** (sounds like Witches)

I’m baaaack.  Been gone for a minute, but I still have my Peculiar Sunglasses  on – you know, the glasses I got from The Peculiar Institution –  and I’ve been watching so much of this crap, I just had to pick up my pen and start writing.

* I have to start my blog off with a footnote.  In mid-December, I started writing this blog to expose the many ways Trump has conned his way into winning and now is parading around here like he’s the “King of America”.  Then  on Christmas Day, Dec. 25, the RNC (Republican National Committee) made this Christmas announcement:

“Over two millennia ago, a new hope was born into the world, a Savior who would offer the promise of salvation to all mankind,” the message from RNC chair Reince Priebus and co-chair Sharon Day said. “Just as the three wise men did on that night, this Christmas heralds a time to celebrate the good news of a new King.”

I don’t know which is the bigger joke: The fact that they believe he’s some kind of Jesus-like king, or that they deny that this is what they meant.  Either way, bow down Bitches, to your new king, “King Trump.”  So I guess the answer to my initial question, “Who died and made Trump King?”, is… wait for it… JESUS!
Let me stop laughing, and get back to my original blog…
This is a story about a con man who wanted to become President.  He went on to swindle enough of you people out of your votes and now he sits atop his throne and reigns as “King of the united states”.  You say, “Trump IS NOT A CON MAN!”  I say, “HA!”  Let’s take a look:

con man


  1. a man who cheats or tricks someone by means of a confidence game.
con·fi·dence game
  1. a swindle in which the victim is persuaded to trust the swindler in some way.
  1. 1.
    use deception to deprive (someone) of money or possessions.[OR VOTES!]
    “a businessman swindled investors out of millions of dollars”
    [OR “A businessman swindled voters out of millions of Votes”]  
  1. 1.
    a fraudulent scheme or action.
    “he is mixed up in a $10 million insurance swindle”

TRUMP is a fraud to begin with… from his business practices (holding banks hostage in order to fund his failed real estate ventures, “TRUMP UNIVERSITY”, TRUMP’s Charity org which is under federal investigation because he used donated funds for his personal expenses, etc.) to his Presidential campaign.  The ratings-hungry media gave Trump free advertising to promote his year-long infomercial of a presidential campaign scam.  This free mass advertising  was key  because it took Trump’s con and spread it nationwide 24 hours/day, 7 days/week for a whole year.  The repeated notion of Trump becoming president – as ridiculous as it was and still is – became believable and alot of you people gained confidence in this notion after a while and you probably don’t know why.  It’s the psychology of the power of Advertising in which it has been proven that if you advertise something to people frequently enough, they’ll start believing that it’s a good idea… no matter how stupid.  People will buy anything…

Check out this informercial

(what happens if you’re not a good putter and the ball goes rolling around the dirty floor and you have to lean forward or take a few steps from the toilet to get it….  I mean, can we say LYSOL with bleach, do they throw in a couple of bottles??

Research proves messages are more effective when repeated.

Fact: This sentence will become more and more truthful every time you read it.
Studies suggest that repeated statements are perceived as more truthful than statements made less frequently,presumably because repetition imbues the statement with familiarity.  In simple terms: frequency breeds familiarity, and familiarity breeds trust.
Similarly studies show that repeated exposure to an opinion makes people believe the opinion is more prevalent, even if the source of that opinion is only a single person.

So if someone states often enough the he “knows more than the generals do” or that his son-in-law can solve the centuries old mideast peace problem, or that he knows exactly how to beat ISIS…   you might actually believe that sh** !

Being an experienced marketer, Trump knew this.  He knew he could gain your confidence by parading his infomercial in your faces constantly by offering the “whores-for-ratings” media outlets daily access to him.  Just like your cat’s litter box, after awhile, you get used to the STANK to the point where it smells like roses or something like that.
Check this example of the power of advertising….

Just like that dog, He lied to you with false “facts”, he deceived you with promises to do whatever you wanted to hear,  and he dodged every attempt to get real answers for how he was going to do all of this fantastic stuff.  RED FLAGS, people!  And now that he’s swindled you people out of your votes, he has removed some of the smoke and mirrors and some of you see him for the con man he’s been all along.

“Oh, that wall… probably gonna be a fence in places”

“Lock her up…  forget about it!”

“The illegal alien Mexicans, they gotta go folks”… not sure how I’m gonna round ’em all up yet though”

“Obamacare… gonna keep it”

“That dumb stupid president Obama, …. “Great guy!”

“I’m gonna separate myself from my business… NOT! … Don’t really have toooooo!”

“Drain the swamp”….  “YOU people need to stop saying that kind of stuff… it’s mean”

And that’s just the prologue,  we haven’t even gotten to the beginning.  He’s not sworn in yet!  But when you are King, you do what ever in the hell you want to do.

Oh, yeah, he’s your King, and Eric and Don are your princes, and Ivanka, not Elsa, is your new Princess.  But this ain’t no fairytale, it’s your new hell, so like I said earlier,

Bow down Bitches, to your new King, “King Trump!” and his reign of ineptitude and terror.



Please notice that I said YOUR king, not mine, because as The American-By-Default, I don’t bow down to none of this sh**, crap, anyway.
So entertain me!        Wait a minute… Let me get my  bucket o’ popcorn and call Jesus so that he and I can sit back and LMFAO.  Why? Because, from my vantage point, this is how I see it through my 3-D “Peculiar Glasses.”  Let the show begin!   The real “American Horror Story”begins NOW!

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

I didn’t create my settings. My ancestors didn’t create my settings. The oppressors of my ancestors created my settings – my default settings. Although my bloodline is part of the foundation of this nation, the united states of america, I’m a foreigner in a strange land. So at times I just sit back with my peculiar glasses on, checking you guys out from my peculiar position as the “All-American Non-American.” American (only) by Default. As such, you can’t tell me sh!t. I don’t want to hear your sh!t. And you probably ain’t about sh!t. Do I sound pissed? You damn skippy.

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Question: Why are white conservative talk show hosts soooo concerned about Black People?

I’m back… and I have my Peculiar Glasses on.I’ve noticed a trend of an obsession among  local (Houston, TX) and national white conservative talk show hosts for the topic of “Black People.”   You know, why do Black People do this, or why do Black People do that, or Black people should feel this way or that. I find myself looking inquisitively at  my radio or TV and asking, “Why are YOU worried about it?”

I mean, unfortunately, we, as Blacks, are self-checked (more on that later).  We are not disturbing the pot.  According to these very conservatives, “the Mexicans are taking over”, “The Chinese are stealing our technology”, “the Muslims are trying to kill us all…”  So why the over flowing obsession to want to talk badly about Black folks?  Shouldn’t you be more concerned over what these other guys are doing?

The way I see it, through my “peculiar glasses”,  you white conservatives are like junkies hooked on blacks not crack.

Insulting us makes you feeeel gooood. The world could be falling down around you, but if you’re “trippin” on Black people, it’s all good. Well, I say, your are trippin… But if you trip too hard, you just might fall.

Down goes the white man… Down goes the white man…    I bet you don’t know why you are so hooked on Black people.  The answer is the reason I started writing my blogs… You too, are feeling the effects of American SLAVERY.  Oh Yeah.  More on that next time.

I am the American-By-Default and I'm watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya... I don't like much of what I see. So I'm going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!

I am the American-By-Default and I’m watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya… I don’t like much of what I see. So I’m going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!


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Obama had to clean the Dirty-Ass Kitchen first

As a wife and mother of a house full of kids,  kitchen duties usually fall at my feet.  Making sure the kitchen is clean and preparing dinner is what I do.  As such, I consider myself a Pro.  Therefore, I am confident that all you other “Pros” out there will agree with what I am about to say:  “Obama had to CLEAN the kitchen first!”  What does that mean?

It means, before you can do this:

…you gotta do this

Look at this mess…  Clean the kitchen first…    Because you can’t cook Dinner in a “Dirty-Ass Kitchen”

Clean the Kitchen First!

Because you can’t cook Dinner in a Dirty-Ass Kitchen!

What is my point?

  Simple.  President George W. Bush’s administration left the country in a mess.  Yeah the house looked pretty on the outside, but when you went inside, it was like an episode of “Hoarders”!  The dishwasher’s full, both sinks overflowing with dirty dishes, kitchen counter’s cluttered and dirty. So before newly-elected President Obama could start cooking this big meal he promised everybody, he had to CLEAN THE KITCHEN FIRST!  You can’t start getting your pots boiling when there’s no clean pots to begin with and no room in the sink to wash the pots, let alone get water into the pots to put on the stove.  You can’t start chopping up your vegetables and seasoning your meat when there’s no countertop space for your chopping block!  Can you cook dinner in a Dirty-Ass Kitchen?  I can’t.  And neither could President Barak Obama. Now let’s get it straight.  The American By Default, that’s me, is not a “fan” of anybody’s except God Almighty and my husband.  So, I’m not a “fan” of Obama’s, but I am a fan of the Truth!

Back to the Dirty-Ass Kitchen.

PRO Tip:  Cleaning the dirty kitchen wastes time you could have spent cooking.

Another PRO Tip:  Once you have finally finished cleaning the once Dirty-Ass Kitchen, you wipe the sweat off your brow, look over the rim of peculiar glasses  at the culprits who dirtied the kitchen in the first place and threaten them if they even think about coming into your kitchen while you are trying to cook.

3rd PRO Tip:  They are going to come back! Just as you are finally ready to put your pots on the stove, they are going to stand in the entrance to your now clean kitchen and have the audacity to complain, saying, “Dang, when is Dinner going to be ready, it’s taking too long?!” While you do your best to count to 10 and ignore this childish behavior, what happens next is really gonna trip you out! They are going to come back again, only this time, seeing that the kitchen is now clean and there’s clear counter space, they are going to be pointing to their greedy little mouths and suggest to you that your dinner’s taking too long – so scrap that stuff –  and you should just let them (the very culprits who dirtied the kitchen) come back into the kitchen so they can slap together some peanut butter and jelly sandwiches instead.  “Do what?” you may say.  “And leave my kitchen dirty all over again?” you may say.

But for entertainment’s sake, let’s say you warded them off again and instead, you say, “Hey, how about you guys help me prepare MY dinner by setting the table for me?”  Sounds like a reasonable request, and most kids would probably do it.  But if have a bunch of “knuckleheads” in your family, it will probably go like this:  All of a sudden, they can’t remember where the plates are, or they can’t reach the cups, or they can’t find the hot sauce and what-not.  Nevermind that they had no problem finding everything when they dirtied up the kitchen in the first place.

So what do you do with a bunch of characters like that?  Do you let them get away with such childish behavior or even worse, reward them by letting them tell you what to do and how to do it?  Or do you tell them to go sit their asses down and read a book – or color in one – and let grown folks take care of grown folks’ business. You wouldn’t let them into your Kitchen.  I know I wouldn’t.  And neither should President Obama.

The choice is yours:  Do you let them back in to the “Now Cleaned Kitchen”

Finally the Kitchen is Clean enough that you can start Cooking! I mean, “Iron Chef” up in this mutha…!

or do you Vote for Barack Obama for a second term so that he can finish what he started after being delayed by having to clean up Bush’s mess and being obstructed by  they vast majority of the Republican Party.

I live in Texas, so they tell me that my vote for Obama doesn’t count anyway because of the demographics  we’ve got down here, but for the rest of you… even I, the AmericanByDefault -who really don’t care about your politics-  … even I say, let the man finish cooking his dinner… DAMN!

And that’s how I see it from my All-American Perspective.

The American By Default…
An All-American Perspective
This is how I see it through  my
“Peculiar Glasses”

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My Hiatus

Obviously, I took some time off.  Why?  Well I was living life and the time didn’t permit me to manage my Blogs.  Oh, and my hubby posed initial concern that I would get caught up in arguments with those commenting on my Blogs.  So we decided that you guys can comment, I probably won’t respond “directly” to those comments.


I’m Back!  So watch out… because I’ve been wearing my “Peculiar Glasses” during this time off, and let me tell you,  I haven’t been liking what I ‘ve been seeing!  Frankly, I’m not sure where to start!

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

How I See It! from an American Perspective

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