Monthly Archives: January 2017

10 Signs Why TRUMP Is An ABUSIVE “SPOUSE”… Red Flags!


If your friend was entering into an abusive relationship, how many RED FLAGS will you have to see before you finally say something to that friend?

Well, since I’m in a friendly mood today, I’m gonna speak to you, friend-to-friend…  “WTF are you doing?  Don’t you see all of these RED FLAGS?   How many flashing neon red flags need to pop up before you realize that something is very wrong here?”

Trump displays many classic signs of a no good, abusive partner that one should run away from, not run to.  But you know how it goes…  you figure, yeah he shows some signs of being an abusive partner, but when we get married… it will get better…  he’s gonna “Make Everything Great Again”…  NOT!   You need to pay attention to all of those gigantic RED FLAGS before you go any further!

NEWS FLASH–>  To those of you conned by the simple con man “King Trump”…   You are suffering from “Battered-wife’s syndrome”.  Let’s look at some of the the signs of an abusive relationship:

Anger: Temper tantrums, outbursts (or TWITTER bursts), and getting irrationally angry over small or insignificant things are signs that they have anger issues and can’t (or won’t) control their behavior.
** check out his press conference (Wed., Jan 11, 2017)  VERY Unpresidential…  so Sad!

Blame others for their problems or their bad behavior (Blame the “crooked” media for reporting his outbursts) (Blame the Dems for getting hacked by his friend and fellow abuser Putin)

Doesn’t say “I’m sorry.”   They’ll talk around the issue instead of addressing it in a direct manner. Apologies are an admission of guilt, which is essentially saying, “I’m not perfect.”   THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR BAD BEHAVIOR
** mocking the handicapped reporter, insulting the Gold Star family, etc.

Shows signs of secretive behaviors or excessive lying.  Fact: you can not have a healthy relationship without honesty
** he has reneged on almost all of his campaign promises before he’s even sworn in.  That’s gotta be a record!

>The wall might be a fence, and you’re gonna pay for it, NOT MEXICO
>He is not separating himself from his businesses in truth,  a fake separation = FAKE NEWS
>Repeal and Replace Obamacare… doesn’t know how!
>Drain the Swamp…  Trump Tower now sits right in the middle of that swamp
>”I know more than the generals!”   … REALLY??

Double standards
They can make mistakes, get angry, etc., but if you do it, it’s a crime.
** Trump can  go on Twitter and tweet out disparaging remarks about people, companies, etc. but if he THINKS that you are about to say something no-so-flattering about him, he starts crying like a bitch and wants to fight.

They use ultimatums to get their way.
They are stubborn and threaten to end your relationship, instead of coming to a compromise.
** If you don’t bow down to “King Trump”, he will try to make you pay.

You don’t like their friends.
If the people they hang out with are not nice people, you should probably reevaluate things.
** He thinks he is friends with Putin the “dicktator”

They throw temper tantrums over little things. (Like Tweets)
Emotional stability is key in a long-term relationship and it’s a lot to deal with. If they have legitimate emotional issues, maybe they should see a psychiatrist. They should    not be yelling at you, in person or by text message, multiple times per day.
** He Cra-Cra folks….. Big League  

They become angry when discussing their mistakes.
It’s not alright when they become angry about discussing anything they don’t like, don’t agree with, or don’t want to talk about. Their inability to talk about things that annoy them or strike a nerve is going to cause communication obstacles in your relationship further down the road.
** Like press conferences where he is supposed to be communicating to you what he’s doing on your behalf.

I know, that’s only 9 signs, but you get the point.

Trump is a bully bitch only concerned about himself and how good he looks sitting on his throne that you people were stupid enough to put him on.  The red flags have been waving since he came down that escalator.  And for some VERY STRANGE reason, people are saying, let’s make this official and tie the proverbial knot.

Do you, the United States of America, take this fool to be your unlawfully wedded president until death do you part?

Well,  guess what…  “I DON’T!”

But, I am The American-By-Default,  so consider yourself warned.

The American By Default

I am the American-By-Default and I’m watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya… I don’t like much of what I see. So I’m going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!


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January 12, 2017 · 3:32 pm

BLACK Racism is just like White Racism….  

is what “FoxNews White folks” want you to think.  They  seem all pissed off that poor little “Happy Meal”-eating-Black-church-goer-killer dylan roof is about to get the death penalty for killing all those black people.  So what do they do?  They have jumped all over this newly released video out of Chicago of some stupid black young people terrorizing a seemingly white young person with special needs.  The video was just released barely 24 hours before these folks jumped all over it blaming Black Lives Matter, and calling for civil rights hate crime punishments, etc., just because someone said something about “F*** Trump” and “F*** white people.”

As bad as the behavior of these black young people was, the over-eagerness of these “FoxNews White folks” to focus on the “Trump supporter and white people ” references made in the 30 min FaceBook feed, has made my “Peculiar Glasses” fog up.  In their minds (yes, I’m a mind reader), they’re saying, “See these blacks are just like dylan roof, and should get the same treatment as dylan roof.”

Well, I say …
#1 No!  I don’t think these 4 perpetrators deserve a Happy Meal,
#2terrorizing somebody and letting them go is not on the same level as plotting and executing a massacre at a church, and
#3 can we at least see one of their online manefestos or video rants of how they hate white special needs people before we call in the Justice Dept.

Take a critical suggestion from The American-By-Default… Don’t show how desperate you are to prove that white racism in this country doesn’t exist and never existed.  Be patient and find a real equalizing example that proves your thesis that white racism doesn’t exist.

Original Facebook live streaming of hate crimes.

Original Facebook live streaming. Did these guys and their stupid kids get charged with a hate crime?

I know you people are used to killing Niggas and getting away with it, but don’t get all emotional behind the fact that your boy Roof is about to go down for his dirty deeds.  #FindABetterExample.

That’s how I see it from behind my “Peculiar Glasses” (the lens that I look through when I see the world that I live in…  based on my black american slave ancestry and history in america which is why I am “The American-By-Default”!

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

I didn’t create my settings. My ancestors didn’t create my settings. The oppressors of my ancestors created my settings – my default settings. Although my bloodline is part of the foundation of this nation, the united states of america, I’m a foreigner in a strange land. So at times I just sit back with my peculiar glasses on, checking you guys out from my peculiar position as the “All-American Non-American.” American (only) by Default. As such, you can’t tell me sh!t. I don’t want to hear your sh!t. And you probably ain’t about sh!t. Do I sound pissed? You damn skippy.

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