10 Signs Why TRUMP Is An ABUSIVE “SPOUSE”… Red Flags!

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If your friend was entering into an abusive relationship, how many RED FLAGS will you have to see before you finally say something to that friend?

Well, since I’m in a friendly mood today, I’m gonna speak to you, friend-to-friend…  “WTF are you doing?  Don’t you see all of these RED FLAGS?   How many flashing neon red flags need to pop up before you realize that something is very wrong here?”

Trump displays many classic signs of a no good, abusive partner that one should run away from, not run to.  But you know how it goes…  you figure, yeah he shows some signs of being an abusive partner, but when we get married… it will get better…  he’s gonna “Make Everything Great Again”…  NOT!   You need to pay attention to all of those gigantic RED FLAGS before you go any further!

NEWS FLASH–>  To those of you conned by the simple con man “King Trump”…   You are suffering from “Battered-wife’s syndrome”.  Let’s look at some of the the signs of an abusive relationship:

Anger: Temper tantrums, outbursts (or TWITTER bursts), and getting irrationally angry over small or insignificant things are signs that they have anger issues and can’t (or won’t) control their behavior.
** check out his press conference (Wed., Jan 11, 2017)  VERY Unpresidential…  so Sad!

Blame others for their problems or their bad behavior (Blame the “crooked” media for reporting his outbursts) (Blame the Dems for getting hacked by his friend and fellow abuser Putin)

Doesn’t say “I’m sorry.”   They’ll talk around the issue instead of addressing it in a direct manner. Apologies are an admission of guilt, which is essentially saying, “I’m not perfect.”   THEY NEVER APOLOGIZE FOR BAD BEHAVIOR
** mocking the handicapped reporter, insulting the Gold Star family, etc.

Shows signs of secretive behaviors or excessive lying.  Fact: you can not have a healthy relationship without honesty
** he has reneged on almost all of his campaign promises before he’s even sworn in.  That’s gotta be a record!

>The wall might be a fence, and you’re gonna pay for it, NOT MEXICO
>He is not separating himself from his businesses in truth,  a fake separation = FAKE NEWS
>Repeal and Replace Obamacare… doesn’t know how!
>Drain the Swamp…  Trump Tower now sits right in the middle of that swamp
>”I know more than the generals!”   … REALLY??

Double standards
They can make mistakes, get angry, etc., but if you do it, it’s a crime.
** Trump can  go on Twitter and tweet out disparaging remarks about people, companies, etc. but if he THINKS that you are about to say something no-so-flattering about him, he starts crying like a bitch and wants to fight.

They use ultimatums to get their way.
They are stubborn and threaten to end your relationship, instead of coming to a compromise.
** If you don’t bow down to “King Trump”, he will try to make you pay.

You don’t like their friends.
If the people they hang out with are not nice people, you should probably reevaluate things.
** He thinks he is friends with Putin the “dicktator”

They throw temper tantrums over little things. (Like Tweets)
Emotional stability is key in a long-term relationship and it’s a lot to deal with. If they have legitimate emotional issues, maybe they should see a psychiatrist. They should    not be yelling at you, in person or by text message, multiple times per day.
** He Cra-Cra folks….. Big League  

They become angry when discussing their mistakes.
It’s not alright when they become angry about discussing anything they don’t like, don’t agree with, or don’t want to talk about. Their inability to talk about things that annoy them or strike a nerve is going to cause communication obstacles in your relationship further down the road.
** Like press conferences where he is supposed to be communicating to you what he’s doing on your behalf.

I know, that’s only 9 signs, but you get the point.

Trump is a bully bitch only concerned about himself and how good he looks sitting on his throne that you people were stupid enough to put him on.  The red flags have been waving since he came down that escalator.  And for some VERY STRANGE reason, people are saying, let’s make this official and tie the proverbial knot.

Do you, the United States of America, take this fool to be your unlawfully wedded president until death do you part?
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Well,  guess what…  “I DON’T!”

But, I am The American-By-Default,  so consider yourself warned.

The American By Default

I am the American-By-Default and I’m watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya… I don’t like much of what I see. So I’m going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!

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January 12, 2017 · 3:32 pm

BLACK Racism is just like White Racism….  

is what “FoxNews White folks” want you to think.  They  seem all pissed off that poor little “Happy Meal”-eating-Black-church-goer-killer dylan roof is about to get the death penalty for killing all those black people.  So what do they do?  They have jumped all over this newly released video out of Chicago of some stupid black young people terrorizing a seemingly white young person with special needs.  The video was just released barely 24 hours before these folks jumped all over it blaming Black Lives Matter, and calling for civil rights hate crime punishments, etc., just because someone said something about “F*** Trump” and “F*** white people.”

As bad as the behavior of these black young people was, the over-eagerness of these “FoxNews White folks” to focus on the “Trump supporter and white people ” references made in the 30 min FaceBook feed, has made my “Peculiar Glasses” fog up.  In their minds (yes, I’m a mind reader), they’re saying, “See these blacks are just like dylan roof, and should get the same treatment as dylan roof.”

Well, I say …
#1 No!  I don’t think these 4 perpetrators deserve a Happy Meal,
#2terrorizing somebody and letting them go is not on the same level as plotting and executing a massacre at a church, and
#3 can we at least see one of their online manefestos or video rants of how they hate white special needs people before we call in the Justice Dept.

Take a critical suggestion from The American-By-Default… Don’t show how desperate you are to prove that white racism in this country doesn’t exist and never existed.  Be patient and find a real equalizing example that proves your thesis that white racism doesn’t exist.

Original Facebook live streaming of hate crimes.

Original Facebook live streaming. Did these guys and their stupid kids get charged with a hate crime?

I know you people are used to killing Niggas and getting away with it, but don’t get all emotional behind the fact that your boy Roof is about to go down for his dirty deeds.  #FindABetterExample.

That’s how I see it from behind my “Peculiar Glasses” (the lens that I look through when I see the world that I live in…  based on my black american slave ancestry and history in america which is why I am “The American-By-Default”!

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

I didn’t create my settings. My ancestors didn’t create my settings. The oppressors of my ancestors created my settings – my default settings. Although my bloodline is part of the foundation of this nation, the united states of america, I’m a foreigner in a strange land. So at times I just sit back with my peculiar glasses on, checking you guys out from my peculiar position as the “All-American Non-American.” American (only) by Default. As such, you can’t tell me sh!t. I don’t want to hear your sh!t. And you probably ain’t about sh!t. Do I sound pissed? You damn skippy.


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Who Died and Made Trump King *

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Bow Down Bi***** (sounds like Witches)

I’m baaaack.  Been gone for a minute, but I still have my Peculiar Sunglasses  on – you know, the glasses I got from The Peculiar Institution –  and I’ve been watching so much of this crap, I just had to pick up my pen and start writing.

* I have to start my blog off with a footnote.  In mid-December, I started writing this blog to expose the many ways Trump has conned his way into winning and now is parading around here like he’s the “King of America”.  Then  on Christmas Day, Dec. 25, the RNC (Republican National Committee) made this Christmas announcement:

“Over two millennia ago, a new hope was born into the world, a Savior who would offer the promise of salvation to all mankind,” the message from RNC chair Reince Priebus and co-chair Sharon Day said. “Just as the three wise men did on that night, this Christmas heralds a time to celebrate the good news of a new King.”

I don’t know which is the bigger joke: The fact that they believe he’s some kind of Jesus-like king, or that they deny that this is what they meant.  Either way, bow down Bitches, to your new king, “King Trump.”  So I guess the answer to my initial question, “Who died and made Trump King?”, is… wait for it… JESUS!
Let me stop laughing, and get back to my original blog…
This is a story about a con man who wanted to become President.  He went on to swindle enough of you people out of your votes and now he sits atop his throne and reigns as “King of the united states”.  You say, “Trump IS NOT A CON MAN!”  I say, “HA!”  Let’s take a look:

con man

noun

informal
  1. a man who cheats or tricks someone by means of a confidence game.
con·fi·dence game
noun
  1. a swindle in which the victim is persuaded to trust the swindler in some way.
swin·dle
ˈswindl/
verb
  1. 1.
    use deception to deprive (someone) of money or possessions.[OR VOTES!]
    “a businessman swindled investors out of millions of dollars”
    [OR “A businessman swindled voters out of millions of Votes”]  
    noun
  1. 1.
    a fraudulent scheme or action.
    “he is mixed up in a $10 million insurance swindle”

TRUMP is a fraud to begin with… from his business practices (holding banks hostage in order to fund his failed real estate ventures, “TRUMP UNIVERSITY”, TRUMP’s Charity org which is under federal investigation because he used donated funds for his personal expenses, etc.) to his Presidential campaign.  The ratings-hungry media gave Trump free advertising to promote his year-long infomercial of a presidential campaign scam.  This free mass advertising  was key  because it took Trump’s con and spread it nationwide 24 hours/day, 7 days/week for a whole year.  The repeated notion of Trump becoming president – as ridiculous as it was and still is – became believable and alot of you people gained confidence in this notion after a while and you probably don’t know why.  It’s the psychology of the power of Advertising in which it has been proven that if you advertise something to people frequently enough, they’ll start believing that it’s a good idea… no matter how stupid.  People will buy anything…
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Check out this informercial https://youtu.be/Cp5FAbJvUEY

(what happens if you’re not a good putter and the ball goes rolling around the dirty floor and you have to lean forward or take a few steps from the toilet to get it….  I mean, can we say LYSOL with bleach, do they throw in a couple of bottles??

Anyway…
Research proves messages are more effective when repeated.

REPEAT IT… BELIEVE IT
Fact: This sentence will become more and more truthful every time you read it.
Studies suggest that repeated statements are perceived as more truthful than statements made less frequently,presumably because repetition imbues the statement with familiarity.  In simple terms: frequency breeds familiarity, and familiarity breeds trust.
Similarly studies show that repeated exposure to an opinion makes people believe the opinion is more prevalent, even if the source of that opinion is only a single person.

So if someone states often enough the he “knows more than the generals do” or that his son-in-law can solve the centuries old mideast peace problem, or that he knows exactly how to beat ISIS…   you might actually believe that sh** !

Being an experienced marketer, Trump knew this.  He knew he could gain your confidence by parading his infomercial in your faces constantly by offering the “whores-for-ratings” media outlets daily access to him.  Just like your cat’s litter box, after awhile, you get used to the STANK to the point where it smells like roses or something like that.
Check this example of the power of advertising….

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Just like that dog, He lied to you with false “facts”, he deceived you with promises to do whatever you wanted to hear,  and he dodged every attempt to get real answers for how he was going to do all of this fantastic stuff.  RED FLAGS, people!  And now that he’s swindled you people out of your votes, he has removed some of the smoke and mirrors and some of you see him for the con man he’s been all along.

“Oh, that wall… probably gonna be a fence in places”

“Lock her up…  forget about it!”

“The illegal alien Mexicans, they gotta go folks”… not sure how I’m gonna round ’em all up yet though”

“Obamacare… gonna keep it”

“That dumb stupid president Obama, …. “Great guy!”

“I’m gonna separate myself from my business… NOT! … Don’t really have toooooo!”

“Drain the swamp”….  “YOU people need to stop saying that kind of stuff… it’s mean”

And that’s just the prologue,  we haven’t even gotten to the beginning.  He’s not sworn in yet!  But when you are King, you do what ever in the hell you want to do.

Oh, yeah, he’s your King, and Eric and Don are your princes, and Ivanka, not Elsa, is your new Princess.  But this ain’t no fairytale, it’s your new hell, so like I said earlier,

Bow down Bitches, to your new King, “King Trump!” and his reign of ineptitude and terror.

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Please notice that I said YOUR king, not mine, because as The American-By-Default, I don’t bow down to none of this sh**, crap, anyway.
So entertain me!        Wait a minute… Let me get my  bucket o’ popcorn and call Jesus so that he and I can sit back and LMFAO.  Why? Because, from my vantage point, this is how I see it through my 3-D “Peculiar Glasses.”  Let the show begin!   The real “American Horror Story”begins NOW!

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

I didn’t create my settings. My ancestors didn’t create my settings. The oppressors of my ancestors created my settings – my default settings. Although my bloodline is part of the foundation of this nation, the united states of america, I’m a foreigner in a strange land. So at times I just sit back with my peculiar glasses on, checking you guys out from my peculiar position as the “All-American Non-American.” American (only) by Default. As such, you can’t tell me sh!t. I don’t want to hear your sh!t. And you probably ain’t about sh!t. Do I sound pissed? You damn skippy.

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Only Blacks (and Native Americans) Can Complain About Racism and Discrimination

Only Blacks (and Native Americans) can complain about Racism and Discrimination in the United States. Why, you ask? Because although others may experience a “feeling” of being treated unfairly due to a possible incident of “reverse discrimination,” or maybe some Black person said something you felt was Racist and “got away with it,” or whatever; do you really think that compares to 12 Years A Slave, or 100 years Some Slaves, or Generation After Generation Some G##Damn Slaves! I didn’t think so.

Whatever your complaint, it pales in comparison to what Blacks and Natives have experienced throughout the history of this country. And what enrages me about it the most is that you people who get your panties tied up in a knot behind this “alleged racism”, you are the same people who get amnesia when it comes to the real effects of real racism in the form of the Peculiar Institution aka (African-American Slavery) and its subsequent versions up to present date. You know, you are the ones who say, “Get over it”, or “Well, I never owned a slave” or some other crap like that. Well, I say to you, “You get over it! You don’t have the right to complain. And if I want to play a Race Card, or the whole damn Deck, I can. Why? Because, from my vantage point, this is how I see it through my “Peculiar Glasses.”

signed,
The American By Default

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

I didn’t create my settings. My ancestors didn’t create my settings. The oppressors of my ancestors created my settings – my default settings. Although my bloodline is part of the foundation of this nation, the united states of america, I’m a foreigner in a strange land. So at times I just sit back with my peculiar glasses on, checking you guys out from my peculiar position as the “All-American Non-American.” American (only) by Default. As such, you can’t tell me sh!t. I don’t want to hear your sh!t. And you probably ain’t about sh!t. Do I sound pissed? You damn skippy.

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Is The Duck Man Right? or Just Right-Winged?

You know he’s Right whether you are a Right-Winged Duck or a Left-Winged Duck

This may be shocking to some of you who have read my blogs, but I agree with the Duck Man for the most part. Alot of what he has to say is opinion and not necessarily fact or true, but when he refers to the Bible verse talking about homosexuals (1 Corinthians 6:9-10 see below)…, why are you all tripping? You know it’s in there, just like fornication between a male and female is in there, just like cheating on your spouse is in there, just like stealing is in there. You know it’s a sin, but if you choose to do it, that’s your right. And God will judge us ALL on the Day of Judgement.

A&E and people who watch the show knew they were “Bible Thumpers”, so why all the drama when you read the article were he make comments like that?

Below is an excerpt from the Bible from:
The New Living Translation – 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
Don’t you realize that those who do wrong will not inherit the Kingdom of God? Don’t fool yourselves. Those who indulge in sexual sin, or who worship idols, or commit adultery, or are male prostitutes, or practice homosexuality, or are thieves, or greedy people, or drunkards, or are abusive, or cheat people–none of these will inherit the Kingdom of God.

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American Justice! Trayvon is why God Hates America.

Once upon a time, Cain killed his brother Able and God said to him,

Trayvon Martin:  Shot straight in the heart, Blood seeping into the earth.

Trayvon Martin: Shot straight in the heart, Blood seeping into the earth.


“Your brother’s blood cries out to me from the ground.” God has a problem with this kind of stuff, but it’s all good with alot of America. They don’t see anything wrong in what Zimmerman did.

I started writing this blog during the Zimmerman trial but stopped because EVERYBODY had an opinion about it, and mine would have simply been just another opinion. So, I’m finishing it now, after the odd number of new revelations of Zimmerman’s obsession with waving his guns around to intimidate people has been exposed. And GUESS WHAT!!! I noticed something as I peered over my “PECULIAR GLASSES”… Zimmerman’s America is once again struggling with its inability to apologize for its sins and right its past wrongs. They can’t even admit to it! They can’t put their lying lips together and simply say, “we may have been wrong about Zimmerman, and Trayvon might not have been the sneaking, robbing, killing machine waiting to pounce on poor Georgie with a can of tea and a bag of Skittles candy that we accused him of being.” They can’t do it.

So, just like their father, SATAN, this America is going to stick with its original sins and refuse to repent. So I suppose its sins stay with it and they burn in Hell with their Father.

“…and that’s how I see from my All-American Perspective, because I AM:”

The American By Default and her Peculiar Glasses

I didn’t create my settings. My ancestors didn’t create my settings. The oppressors of my ancestors created my settings – my default settings. Although my bloodline is part of the foundation of this nation, the united states of america, I’m a foreigner in a strange land. So at times I just sit back with my peculiar glasses on, checking you guys out from my peculiar position as the “All-American Non-American.” American (only) by Default. As such, you can’t tell me sh!t. I don’t want to hear your sh!t. And you probably ain’t about sh!t. Do I sound pissed? You damn skippy.

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Question: Why are white conservative talk show hosts soooo concerned about Black People?

I’m back… and I have my Peculiar Glasses on.I’ve noticed a trend of an obsession among  local (Houston, TX) and national white conservative talk show hosts for the topic of “Black People.”   You know, why do Black People do this, or why do Black People do that, or Black people should feel this way or that. I find myself looking inquisitively at  my radio or TV and asking, “Why are YOU worried about it?”

I mean, unfortunately, we, as Blacks, are self-checked (more on that later).  We are not disturbing the pot.  According to these very conservatives, “the Mexicans are taking over”, “The Chinese are stealing our technology”, “the Muslims are trying to kill us all…”  So why the over flowing obsession to want to talk badly about Black folks?  Shouldn’t you be more concerned over what these other guys are doing?

The way I see it, through my “peculiar glasses”,  you white conservatives are like junkies hooked on blacks not crack.

Insulting us makes you feeeel gooood. The world could be falling down around you, but if you’re “trippin” on Black people, it’s all good. Well, I say, your are trippin… But if you trip too hard, you just might fall.

Down goes the white man… Down goes the white man…    I bet you don’t know why you are so hooked on Black people.  The answer is the reason I started writing my blogs… You too, are feeling the effects of American SLAVERY.  Oh Yeah.  More on that next time.

I am the American-By-Default and I'm watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya... I don't like much of what I see. So I'm going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!

I am the American-By-Default and I’m watching you through my peculiar glasses. And let me tell ya… I don’t like much of what I see. So I’m going to tell you about it, JUST IN CASE YOU TRY TO FORGET!

 

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